Just BE!

We hide,we run,we get frustrated,we want to change,we get influenced,we are afraid not from somebody but very surprisingly from our own SELF.Why can't we just BE? Is it that difficult to feel likeable or wanted? Is being socially desirable a better feeling than being self desirable? We often start disliking our own self because we can't "brag" about it, it does not fit in the convention of 'cult' so to say or simply maybe because its very uncool. It's really alarming to find that people nowadays,who 'so' want to have their own identity in this mad race start loosing it instead. It's really tough to say to your new college peers or your colleagues that I don't drink or I don't smoke or I don't go clubbing or maybe just that I am not a night person, because it isn't the 'in' thing. Right? But just realize that Individuality is something that is meant to be manifest and not latent. Not at all. It's differences that make life colorful and liveable. Clones are similar,not people. Rather than pin pointing the negatives a person has, it's better to look for their positives, though they may be few but for sure they will be, and that would reflect the kind of person YOU are, more than what they are. Everybody wants to get ahead of the other because that brings them to the 'limelight' but I don't know what for? They are ready to cheat,steal and do whatever on earth is possible to attain the pinnacle, but will that acme hold any value? It might give you a great name, an even greater fame but then can you go and look into your eyes the next day in the mirror? Doesn't that person there seem to annoy you.The only problem is that everybody is dichotomous, they want to be good at EVERY thing. I mean, firstly how? and then why? Everybody is blessed with there own arcane potential and it's just,'that',which they need to mend or polish, and they definitely would shine.Why won't they? If sun would have tried to replicate those stars then I am sure it would not have been where it stands now. This only betokens that you could be there if YOU want to be. How do you know you that you can not be better than the other person at a job if you would just set your limits by there's? You should never settle for less, you aren't meant to be. Find a meaning for your existence and then life would seem beautiful. It might not just be your 'career' or getting a position in your grade, it could be much beyond. 3 Idiots never fail's to remind me of the adage, that it's excellence that you should seek and success would follow. Strive for bigger things in life, rise above getting those 100/100, or standing 1st in your class, or being declared the best employee and so on, you could definitely be better than that. Seek knowledge, learn and do it gracefully. If you do it with aplomb you would definitely be there, not surely in the 'limelight' but yes maybe in an even better state. So just be what you are and do what you want to do,because no one can be a better YOU than YOU YOURSELF can!
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