Wednesday 29 January 2014

Dreams are made of 'Real things'

 
Dreams are made of things that exist in 'reality', that's a less noticed but yet a striking fact. We often fear dreaming. Don't we? Why do we set limits while dreaming? What do we fear of? In this era of 'adulteration' our dreams too have adulterated ;) No,actually its our fear which is bigger than our dreams and that overpowers our feeling of turning our dreams to reality. We aren't really 'passionate' about our dreams or even if we are we have so many apprehensions that we let them 'just' be dreams. I feel sorry about those who limit there dreams to fiction and don't turn them to factuality, I really do.
'Passion', what a strong word. We all love calling ourselves 'passionate', but in the true sense how many of us really are passionate about something? Are we? I guess hardly any. We all love making excuses about every single thing we push ourselves into but who are we really fooling? Just ourselves, trust me when I say that. It's not about being busy with 'other' things which seem important and that hinders you from reaching your dream, it's just that you aren't really willing to do anything. You just want to lay back in your bed with a cup of coffee in your hands and acting as an agony aunt to your friends' oh-so-serious relationship problems and then   be willing to have all that 'fame' as if everything were a cake walk. Life's not as easy as it seems. Why is that a biography of Milkha Singh just inspires us for three hours and then looses it's impact once we are out of the theatre? What do you take back from those three hours, probably nothing. Today we are reluctant to learn, and that is where we lack. It's not that I am perfect and you aren't but when I say 'we' then I mean all of us. There's a lot of self reflection while you write you see :P But on a serious note we all are just running in the mad race knowing not where to reach and that is pretty sad. That is why we are even after 66 years of independence still a 'developing'and not a 'developed' country. It's so easy to point fingers forgetting that 'four' of them point at your own self. It's high time we wake up not so that we don't dream any more but so that we can turn our dreams to 'reality'. And I am sure a day will come when this thin line of 'dreams' and 'reality' will collide and we will enter a new world. My dream is that I can breathe in such a world :) what's yours?
#Dreamon #Bepassionate #Introspection #Lifelearnings


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