They say I am a Dreamer, But I am not the Only One..: Sweat or Bleed?

They say I am a Dreamer, But I am not the Only One..: Sweat or Bleed?: "The more you sweat while you plan the less you bleed while you fight..." A very inspirational quote that I read some where, whi...

Sweat or Bleed?

"The more you sweat while you plan the less you bleed while you fight..."
A very inspirational quote that I read some where, which makes me go all the way long to reach my dreams. But just a random thought that ran my mind while I read it once again, can everything be planned? Are dreams planned? Can you deliberate while you dream? This thought was not only contradictory to what the above statement had to offer but instead it led me wondering, that how come we if can't even predict that we will achieve something or not and still run behind it day in day out? Silly.
Some things are not in our hands and so are dreams. You can't really control your dreams and go like 'Today I ll dream of my Prince charming fleeting on his white horse taking me far away' :P.
But, I done think it's important to plan everything either , sometimes you should know how to live in chaos, let things happen the way they are happening, let your life sway the way its swaying and then let it take you where it wants. Dreams are one of that sort, they change day in and out, they make you believe that life still has something good to offer, that there still is an unlocked door  waiting for you to open and that there still is hope in the world. 
Few days ago I just happened to attend a lecture of a resource person from a 'B-school' and she instilled a new thought in me, a little exercise that she made me do and I would like to share the same with you. Believe me the magic would happen.
Take a deep breadth, switch off your mobile, turn off the Pc, move away from the Tv screen and relax. Close your eyes and imagine yourself in 2020...Where do you see yourself? What sort of a setting is it? Every detail that you can see? Try hard and figure it out?
What do you see? Is the picture vivid/hazy/not even there? (P.S I ll love to hear what you saw)
Whether you can see them or not or the picture still is hazy, wait till it unfolds.Wait, and the picture will come, if not today then maybe some other time but don't give up. Don't Give Up on your dreams nor on yourself. Believe and it will happen...
#Hope #DreamLove #Cantloose

Lost In Dreams

Hello Amazing people, I am back :)

I know it took a little too long to be back :P, and I would love to share where was I, why din't I turn up for so long, what made me do so and all of that, but before which I would like to ask you guys a question....Is the race still on? Are you still dreaming? Or have you lost your dream somewhere,probably hiding it in your heart?

I hope not :), but if you certainly have then its time to open up.....

All this while that I was away, I was lost in my dreams :), mind you lost 'in' my dreams and not 'lost' a dream...These 45 days were something different,they were magical and now I am a changed person, a little more wiser,a little more conscious and a little more closer to my dream....

This 'long' while that it took me to come back and write to you made me introspect, it made me think and I'v evolved as a person....

I already told you how different has it been but then I chose to be different and that made all the difference. The only line that comes to my mind right now after writing this is one from Robert Frost's epic poetry 'two roads diverged in the woods, and I took the one less traveled by and that has made all the difference'. :)

The only thing I want to convey is that, walk the path of your dreams however unconventional may it be, because at the end the path 'you' took will make all the difference. Which brings me to the 'oh-so-absurd' title of the post...Have you ever tried getting lost in your dreams? If you have, then I am sure you know the feeling I am talking about, and if you haven't then I am sad you're missing out on something amazing.

 One day I want to wake up and say,oh that was 'Déjà vu' ;), I hope you do the same (y)

#Would love to hear your 'lost dream' and 'share mine

#Keep reading 

#DreamLove

Dream Kid

Hello, folks, I hope everybody had a pretty amazing weekend, well I did ;)
 Me+Sleep+Rains= Perfect 
Well sadly Monday is here :P, and I had to get back to work, same old routine, bored but until something caught my eye....
I was there in an institute for special kids, observing what all can be done with them and how far can they do things rightly. Just while doing so, a little kid came and she was mentally handicapped, and I was observing her, lost in her own sweet world, she knew nothing of what was going around, engrossed in her own self, with pure innocence playing with her hands looking at everything dazzled by its beauty, laughing all the way which made me think of how beautifully can one live irrespective of how they are, in what position they are, and what there future would be. We, occupied beings are so bothered of how we look, how we talk, what dress is the girl besides us wearing, are we looking up to the mark, how would my future shape up? Isn't it? We all do, but then when I look upon these special kids, I feel so awestruck by the passion they carry, by the will they have, by the wit that keeps them going, by the dreams they live with, that mean everything to them so much that whatever people say they try to achieve what they think is right :) even though it might not be.
And that's something we all must learn, we must learn to be driven by the same determination, to strive for what we think we are capable of, to dream irrespective of it being reachable or not, to stand up for what you believe. I feel so sad for myself, sad, because I missed out on such a huge part of my life running behind things that I don't even know would lead me anywhere or not, of what people would say when I would tell them I dream of this, I really do. But as they say its never too late to learn, so I ll make sure I dream, and let them fly without thinking of where they would lead to, I guess then life would be a better place to live in. 
Remember: When Life Seems Black and White Make sure You dream Of Colors :)

Talk to them and look back if you have missed out on some life ;)

Some Dreams Are Born Dead and Some Dreams are Buried Alive...

Hello Folks
Friday it is, the most awaited day of the week :P (at least for me) So what cool plans do you guys have, I am sure they would be much cooler then mine though :/ (Long story :P)
#Tellmeabouit ;) (I would love to know it :D)
Anyways, coming back to what its meant to be...

It appears hazy isn't it and Often we think, should I even dream of this? Will this be achievable? Isn't it too much to think of? But my question is why?

Why do we always need a measuring scale or a parameter for everything trying to restrict it by not trying to push are limits? Are we just being lazy or maybe just bound to do so? I don't think anyone can bound you until you bound your own self, the former being the major reason I guess more than that then we are just being stupid. Yes, pardon me for using that word, but really stupid. When we don't think before putting on 40 extra kilos, or eating 4 more chocolates even though we are diabetic, or maybe getting slaushed at a party for no reason and then bearing the brunt of it the next morning, or buying  fifty more things at the 'oh-so-funky' new mall unnecessarily just because they are 'in' these days, and I can go on and on but then what I mean is when we don't think while doing any of these then why do we think so much before dreaming? Why do we set a bar at ourselves when it comes to dreams, how come laziness comes in all the while. 
I think with all this said, I would like you to scroll up and read the title again, it will sense.

Are you Dreaming?

I hope everybody is geared up all set to fly sky high after watching the last video, at least when ever I need a boost it is enough to pump me up...

We've been talking a lot about dreams from past few days, why to dream, how to dream and finally How I Dream, but is that enough? Does that mean you guys reading this long philosophical saga would have started dreaming? I am sure not, I doubt even if it made 'any' little sense to you :P but it's okay to feel like that, it is okay to not feel connected by what I mean to say and what I think.

Do you know why I particularly chose dreams for blogging and not anything else? The only reason I did this was that this is the only thing I feel that brings us all on the same page,this is the only thing that keeps us all united, there are no names to our dreams, there are no limitations either, no directions, no specifications and the best thing is people don't judge you when you say last night I dreamt of this, isn't it? So I feel it's the best thing to talk about and why not? It gives a sense of direction, an aim, a hope, a vision, a goal for which we can strive, that can help us push our limits, that can help make us realize what we are capable of, to make us do what we never thought of doing...

They are the best things that can happen to one, we dream and we should always do but as it's said anything in no limit is always destructive. Dream...dream big....but only till you think it doesn't disrupt your reality. It is good to dream but great to keep it in line with reality only then is it that your dreams won't always be fantasies and it is only then that you would dare and dream again...

Think about it...I hope to hear a lot about how dreams mean to you this time, because it's not just you but even me who's learning and I definitely think that I can push my limits by knowing your's :)

#Happydreaming

Remember: Dreams are not what you see while you sleep, dreams are the ones that don't let you sleep :)

#Writetomesoon #Iwillbewaiting

The girl who dared to dream...

Hello amazing people...though it hasn't been long since I'v started writing but still I can't resist myself from posting a new post every single day, may be those 100 page views keep me going! :)

I promised you to return with a story of a girl who dared to dream and then there was no looking back, so here it goes...

This story is of a 16 year old Punjabi girl, who lived in a small city, surrounded by a wonderful family and an amazing bunch of friends, there was nothing that could make her sad, and she was always high on spirits. Always confident that is she is on the right path, surrounded by the best people and it's gotta be the good life ;)... The only little problem was that she was fat or rather 'chubby' as Punjabi's say ;), but that never seemed to bother her, only until, people made her realize...

She never paid attention to what people had to say of her ,with over a hundred kilos she managed to stand firm and tall. But as they say, people can't see someone happy until they themselves are so...Suddenly everything changed for her, the 'good-old' friends turned to the bad new enemies, bullying her all the while not making her feel good, she seemed to loose support from the family too.People said anything and everything they should not have and she kept listening, I guess that was the only option. A day came when she decided she will prove everybody wrong and she will change, of course for the better...Time passed and she gave everything that it took to reach where she wanted to,not because she had to prove it to someone else but rather to herself,she had tough times, where everything seemed gloomy, where her body started to give up, where no one seemed to have supported her, where there was no guidance, where there was not a single ray of hope, where months passed and she din't happen to loose an inch...

But, they say 'when the going get's tough the tough get going', and that is what happened, right two and a half years down the line this 'chubby teen' turned to a beautiful 'smart girl', without a trainer and no jazzy dietitians she managed to loose sixty kilos of herself. Things changed again but now for the better, people who seemed to have bully her all the while started recognizing her, everybody wanted to see her, talk to her, praise her and there was no looking back...

This story was of a girl who dreamt and made it large, she knew she had too and so she did....

#DreamLive #Truestory

#They too had a dream have a look, every time I see it, it seems to give me goosebumps ....

#DreamPost2

Hello Amazing people, I hope everybody finds this post in high spirits :) and has set a through to dream and dream 'big'. Thank you for viewing the last post, I am so glad you connected...
I left you on a note thinking of what dreams mean to you, though you haven't shared many, I hope you have thought about it :)...

They say 'I wish' is better than 'I will' but I guess the latter makes more sense to me, and that is what is important. You can never be certain of what is meant to be but then you can always try.
I asked you if dreams are an unsaid reality or an incomplete truth? Well the mantra for me is really simple, there's not much of a difference for me when it comes to dreams and reality I always feel they get along very well and can easily collide, though I know it may mean differently for some people.
But that is what I have witnessed and that is what I truly believe in. If you really 'want', then you really 'can'. Many of us many a times when get acquainted with the darker phase of life stop themselves from dreaming, but does that solve the problem? Does that make the darker phase a little lighter? It doesn't rather makes it more darker and then you spend rest of the while trying to find yourself in that deep dark mist often been unable to do so.'Dreams' set a path for you, they are the strings of a kite that when left afloat drift in a direction which is always unknown, but to which you still try and give a direction. Dreams are often thought of as 'something big' but dreams can be anything, from owning a Ferrari to scoring the best this semester. Have you started dreaming? If not then what are you waiting for?....
Stay tuned to the next post where a story awaits you, a story of a girl who dared to dream and then there was no looking back....
P.S I love the initiative that keeps people going....and would love to know your side of the story...

#DreamOn

Dreams

Dreams, what do they mean to you?
Are they an incomplete fantasy or an unsaid truth? This is for you to think on...
We all dream, and we dream big, don't we? And what's the harm with it? One should always dream and dream big until it collides with reality...
I am ,no famous personality, no jazzy professional, no different dreamer, but just a normal girl who just like you all has certain dreams some big and some small some achievable and some not. But does that stop me from dreaming? It doesn't, rather it gives me much more potential to sleep every night dreaming about something new and waking up the next morning setting it a through...
It will not be great to dream with me until I dream with you :)...
I am sure each one of you reading this has a dream deep inside waiting to just set free and become a reality but before we set a step forward to make it a reality we must know what we are aiming at, what we aspire to be, what we dream of...
I would love to know of what you guys dream and further tell you of what dreams mean to me....
#DreamLove