Wednesday 29 April 2015

Tough times don't last,tough people do!

Its been long since I penned down my thoughts, sometimes in life you don't realize how much you're missing out on 'life'. A midst all this lurking madness we forget to enjoy those little moments that can bring a smile on our face :) Some people build tough things and sometimes tough things build tough people. It's never both ways, its either the first or the latter. People crib on things like having a bad cellphone, a fight with a friend, even a bad hair day and what not. Luckily they have never witnessed something tougher or they fear witnessing it. Life is only beautiful for those who open there arms wide to welcome every bit of it and work through this dichotomy. It's not always 'black' but also 'white' and maybe sometimes grey, and it's important to realize it. Because the sooner you gulp in this feeling the better you would be able to embrace it's beauty. Someone once told me that 'life is always tough,it's tough today, it was tough yesterday and will remain so tomorrow, why din't we crib of it in the same way as we do now as when we were a kid? Were we high on resilience or were we just ignorant'.Ignorant I am sure, Ignorance definitely is bliss but of course we get finer with growing age and this blurring ignorance gets more and more vivid but why loose the charm of life thinking about things that don't matter, people who won't stay, things that are yet to happen or things that might never happen at all. God has bestowed each of us with a unique attribute called 'perspective' and its just this that makes all the difference. The more you try to sort things the messier it gets, so enjoy the confusion, be lost, make mistakes, try and live in the moment, seize it and cherish it for it may never happen again. Realize the importance of what you have and try to make the most of it. In teens when we get all those life lessons from everybody we really get all fidgety, unable to control impulses and take things in their stride not trying to control what seems beyond us, but then this bag of maturity that people dawn upon us, we start analyzing things more than probably required. We complicate tiny little things forgetting that life demands simplicity. As it is situations and people are difficult, so being difficult yourself doesn't work,it really doesn't serve the purpose.Always remember that moments are never special, its the  people who make it special, so just make sure you don't loose out on any special moment to talk out what you feel, to make someone feel at ease, to just do nothing and be with yourself, to inspire a soul, to cuddle with someone you are close to, to feel loved by your parents when they are by your side and to do what makes you feel happy. Once you start doing things this way tough times wont seem tough, because...
#justbe #livethemoment #makeithappen

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