Tuesday 18 February 2014

Expect the Unexpected :)

Please buffer the link,and  then read the post :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=USH3F4JjkBs

We often stereotype ourselves to conventions and restrict ourselves to the expected. For once let's forget the rules and break the boundaries of thought and think of the unconventional.

 Though half of us do 'think' of the unconventional but yet daunt making it a reality. Family expectations? Societal inhibitions? Peer pressure? Status symbols? What about your own self? I am sure we don't think of about 'ourselves' often, of what we want from life,of what we want to be, of what we 'could have' dreamt of.
 Freud said, "Dreams are the royal road to the unconscious"  i.e. that part of the mind which is untouched and unexplored. But how can we in this era of curiosity to do everything unasked for,let something be unexplored isn't it ;)  So we have started moulding our dreams too and forgotten that some things are better left unplanned. As it is who get's what one has planned? Hardly any or rather none. Life has something else in store for us and we never know if it turns out to be for the better.
We like 'like minded' people isn't it? They are comfortable to talk to, hang around with and even understand. However, we forget that in this hoard of settling for the obvious we have just started creating 'clones' and nothing else. There's something very beautiful that a lady said to me few days ago that 'Difference's are to be celebrated' :) and that made all the difference. All that I am trying to say is to respect not only your own dream but the dreams of others and make it happen. That feeling of letting someone reach their dream a little easy is unmatchable :) It not only gives immense joy but immense satisfaction. Most of the gen X (while we belong to 'gen Y') want us to dream what they dreamed of and if they couldn't reach there for some reason then to push us to do the same. Why? Isn't there something called 'individual differences', am sure there is though many are oblivious of it. So just stop, pause and now think are you on the right path? Is this what you always wanted to do? If not then its never too late to begin, start now. It's not about being what others want you to be it's all about creating the one that 'you' always wanted to be :)
#Sojustdon'tgiveup #Don'tbreakdown #Soonerthanitseemslifeturnsaround :)


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